Biting-effective in the worst situations

Ronald Poppo, the victim of the "Miami Cannibal"

Boys will be boys and when they roughhouse, with some exceptions, while wrestling around there are unspoken rules.  You don't punch me in the balls, or try to choke me, and I won't punch you in the balls, or choke you.  An attempt at doing either of these things will quickly escalate a fight or end it.  Beyond pre-school you seldom see any biting.  At the age of knowing right and wrong we are hard wired not to bite other people.

If you talk to people that put their hands on people for a living like cops, corrections officers, and bouncers, they can tell you tons of stories of people wrestling, kicking, and punching them, but few stories about being bit.  There will be some, and they will stand out because it does not happen that often.  From experience I can tell you that even when someone tries to bite you, you have a very primitive response that I can only liken to being attacked by bees.

Because it is so rare, biting provokes a extreme panic response, making it an excellent go to for

Typical bite to the forearm 

kids, women, elderly and disabled.  These people are prayed on because they are identified as weak by the predator.  They are creatures of habit, just like us and tend to pick the low hanging fruit, people that they expect little to no fright from.  Because they underestimate their victims, they will likely take less care in how much they expose themselves than they would to a regular person.

Regardless of age, size, or infirmity, peoples mouth usually still works.  But unless you cross the mental barrier in your mind against biting someone, you will not think of doing it even when your life depends on it.

Any bite is a good bite to attempt escape, but I would suggest the face, neck, hands and inner arms.  The face, neck and hands are likely to be exposed no matter what the weather is and will be easy targets during any attempted sexual assault.

To effectively bite you should bite into exposed flesh if possible, taking as big as a bite as possible and rip a chunk out as if you were biting into a steak.  Most attackers will probably be no stranger to being hit, or even shot and stabbed, there is a very low probability that they have ever suffered a human bite.  This will quickly become their focus and they will likely be overcome with shock.  Keep in mind that it is a last ditch effort to save your like, because if you fail, they are going to pretty angry.

Experience tells us that children often don't realize they are being abducted until it is over.  When women are abducted they are often frozen with fear.  In both cases this fear changes form and as the abduction moves to where the predator feels save to abuse and kill them.  The transport time to this location, and while at the location may provide some "thinking" time for the victim to realize they need to take action.

Again I will say, if there are certain people in your life that you think this information would be the most beneficial too, be sure to share it with them ahead of time, they will not think of it on their own.

While looking for pictures for this post I found many that I was not comfortable posting because I know that someone may be reading over your shoulder and the pictures are too graphic.  You can search on your own if you need further convincing that biting can be a great equalizer and save someones life.

Yes, I am aware that biting someone could expose you to disease.  That is why biting is only advised when your life is in danger.

What happened in Orlando & best practices for patrons and clubs

With everyone commenting on the tragedy in Orlando I wanted to chime in as well.  We are going to talk about the things that nobody else is covering.  While everyone is talking about the gunman and the police response we will cover the victims themselves and what the club could have done to prevent or limit the carnage.

When something like this happens and I make a comment about how frequenting certain places increases your exposure to danger, people’s reaction is that this is America and people should be able to where they want.  The truth is that they can as long as they are willing to accept the risk.

The top three ingredients for increased risk are people, alcohol, and confined spaces.  The biggest danger is typically fire resulting in a large number of people trying to get out the same door at the same time.  The panic can lead to bottlenecks that trap people in the smoke and fire, or in this case gunfire.

Whenever you enter a structure you need to immediately identify an exit other than the way you came in.  In an emergency people will intuitively rush to the door they came in.  While they are doing that you exit a back or side door.   This should be your response to any danger at all from smoke to gunshots.  The longer you stay in a confined space with other people, especially intoxicated people, the smaller the chance you will escape uninjured or escape at all.  This one simple habit will save more people than anything else you could do.  It should be noted that the tactic of the majority of active shooters is to rush in and shoot all the fish in the barrel.   You would be hard pressed to find an incident where the shooter followed people out of the structure or another shooter was outside.  The more room you have to move the safer you will be.

As previously mentioned this was probably not the habit of many of the club goers at Pulse.  It has to be done upon entry before your senses are dulled by alcohol, especially in places like clubs that can be full of smoke, lights, and noise.

The fact that in addition to the 50 killed 52 were wounded ,but have survived so far tells me that first aid was provided by other patrons, and not first responders.   One federal educational mandate that I could get behind would be that every student in every school start being trained in basic first aid in kindergarten.  Once they get to six grade they should all be certified in CPR and First Aid with a refresher every one or two years.  Think about how much better the outcomes would be for all types of injuries as well as lives saved.   I also have no doubt that lives could have been saved if people knew how to treat a gunshot wound, apply a tourniquet, or treat for shock.  When these incidents occur people die while waiting for first responders.

Now onto the responsibility of the bar.  The majority of our instructors are experienced doormen aka bouncers.  Besides staffing, one of the services we provide is site assessment of all types of business including bars and clubs.
Most places, especially ones that don’t have a history of any issues do not want to spend any money on security staff, especially when they find out that we never work alone and all of our details require a minimum of two people.

Bars and clubs are in the business to make money.  This is done with cover charges, and  the sale of alcohol and food.  A successful bar is busy and staff is concentrating on getting food and alcohol out to customers.  Not only is safety and security not their job they are not trained for it.  They would be about as successful as I would behind the bar.  We see the venue with a different lens.
Not unlike sheepdogs we watch over the customers and staff, looking for anything that does not feel right.  We couple experience with intuition which we act before a problem becomes crystal clear, or it has already happened.  There was a case in Dillsburg PA last year where a murder suicide occurred at a bar.  From all accounts it occurred with little warning and two people were dead in minutes.  Although security may not have been able to stop it.  In the aftermath they could have controlled the aftermath by providing first aid, helping people exit, securing the scene, and working with the police.

Nothing has been said in the news, as least not yet, about what security staff if any Pulse had.  What I can say is that they absolutely had a responsibility to have one.  There should have been staff on the doors not only to scan people coming in but also to lock the front doors to keep the gunman out.  A properly trained security staff could have rushed the shooter, helped people get out and provided first aid.  They would also have been able to provide the police with the tactical information they needed.

You are probably wondering why I have not listed the officer outside as security.  The reason is that he wasn’t.  The cop on the outside was like a fire extinguisher.  It does not give you the right to play with fire.   Estimates are that there were 300+ people in the club.  What can an officer on the outside do to control anything that occurs in the club?  Nothing until it gets so bad it spills into the street and at that point he will need to call more officers.

It is all about best practices and prevention.  If you cannot handle a fight you cannot handle an active shooter.  You cannot take a customer that you are fond of and pay him $10 an hour to sit on the door and check IDs.  You need trained professionals, we along with other companies around the country provide professionals.

At this point I will let other people talk about the police response.  People will harp on this because they don’t want to put any of the responsibility on the club itself.  It would be interesting to see the layout of the club, how they did on past fire inspections, and see what their security plan was of if they had one at all.  It is no different than expecting the police to control what goes on in your house.  It gets to the point where you cannot control it, and call the police only to complain that they could not fix your problem.

Here are some simple best practices in the case of an emergency in a club.  They cost nothing and could save lives-

• All house lights are turned on, lasers etc. are turned off.
• All music is turned off.
• DJ’s gives directions to exit the venue and other information
• All staff carries a whistle in case of emergency, three short blasts signal other staff of emergency and to carry out the security plan.

Again, our thoughts and prayers go out to all those effected and our hearts go out to them.

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Awareness skills for your kids

Because I talk so much about awareness, it comes as no surprise that one of the most common questions I receive is from parents wanting to know how to work on awareness with their kids.  This is a tough question because of kids maturing at different ages.  In this article, I will try to provide some ideas and talking points for you and your kids.

Awareness is quite a buzzword in the tactical world, but there seems to be a problem defining it.  Here is how we do it.  There are three types of awareness: self awareness, situational awareness, and team awareness.  The ideas below are intended for kids from around 3-10 years old.

Self Awareness-   Teach kids to be aware of their limits and stay within them.  For example, if they are not yet comfortable swimming in the deep end of the pool, don’t be coaxed there by other kids.  It is not just about child molesters.  It is about over all safety.  Many bad situations that adults and children encounter could be avoided by not getting in over their head.

Situational Awareness- Kids possess great intuition, but it is most likely to be interpreted as fear, and that is OK as long as they are encouraged to act on it.  When we are scared, a natural response is to retreat to a safe place or person.  Let your kids know that this is natural and everyone, including adults, have it.  This will encourage them to immediately act on it.  If something does not feel right, it’s probably not.  Especially with little ones, don’t try to be too specific with scenarios.  Just let them know that when they are afraid of something or someone that they should remove themselves from the situation.  Fear, probably our most primal and powerful response, sometimes has the ability to paralyze adults, so we should not expect anything different from our kids.  One of the most effective ways to combat this is by breathing, and a good way to encourage that is verbalization.  Ask your child what they would say if they were approached by an adult who was known to them but asked them to do something they were uncomfortable with such as going to the bathroom with them.  Ask them what they would say if they were at a friend’s house at a pool party and they saw their friend's Dad taking pictures of them while they were changing.  Ask them what they would do if someone followed them into a bathroom stall at Wal Mart.  Don’t be surprised if they say they don’t know.  This will open a dialog between you, not only about what they should say but what action to take.  It is my opinion that we spend too much time worrying about our kids being molested by the Boogeyman and too little time talking about the reality of people they know putting them in uncomfortable situations.  Child predators are insidious and often test the water with kids to see what they can get away with.  Kids need permission to decisively respond to anything that they are uncomfortable with.  

Team Awareness- Encourage your kids to immediately respond to you.  Because dangerous situations don’t occur every day, your response to them is going to be unusual requiring you to say and do things that you normally wouldn’t.  Your kids know you well enough that when you use a tone that they are not familiar with, there is something going on.  Our kids are separated by three years.  We always made them responsible for their younger brother or sister, as we were for them.  We enforced this by the way we held hands.  This is very helpful for the Mom that has to load several kids into the minivan.  The older kids serve as lookouts when Mom is fixated on the little ones.  You will be surprised how aware they become when you tell them you need them to be.  Explain to them that bad things can happen even when you are all together and having fun and how important it is for them to immediately do as you say, especially out of the house.  You should have no problem coming up with a few scenarios to role play to make your point.

As with all tools and tactics, it comes down to time and opportunity to use them.  Based on my experience with my own kids, nieces and nephews, and as a Scout leader, I would say that it is around 6-7 that kids start squirming out from under our thumbs.  It is at that time that they will be exposed to other adults without us always being there.  Most often in the way of  a sports team, Scouts, first sleep overs, etc.  As I have discussed before, I find biting to be the most reliable tool for kids this age to defend themselves against adults.  It is intuitive, primal, and effective.  Just be sure that they realize that they cannot overpower an adult and not to waste valuable time trying to do so when they need to get away.

This short article is not intended to be the final word on training your kids, but rather some ideas to open a dialog with them.  Letting them know that being afraid of certain situations and people is a natural gift goes a long way in ensuring that they will act on their feeling, something most adults fail to do.